Bands of Service

Bands are given to men during the check-in process to allow men to select their level of participation and as a guide for FemDoms for selecting men for all forms of engagement (service, play, etc.). The Bands of Service creates balance between expectations, indulgent freedom, and the observance of General, Host, and House rules. Limits and consent will be respected.

Men, please select your band wisely as they cannot be changed during core party hours.

Green – an unencumbered submissive open to all variety of interaction with FemDoms including, but not limited to, basic service, play, etc. A submissive wearing a green band may be utilize as any discerning FemDom desires. Touching, insertables, and edge play must be consensual and/or negotiated.

Yellow – a submissive that is open to service or play, but is new, hesitant, or may be limited in abilities/experience. Considered open for basic service (i.e. getting drinks, snacks, etc.), this submissive has moderate impediments. Touching, insertables, and edge play must be consensual and/or negotiated. (Selecting yellow to be a voyeur will be highly prohibited.)

Black – a submissive who is owned, collared, and under Host/House protocol is unavailable to FemDoms for any service. Permissions MUST be granted by their Dominant or Host/House before engaging with them.