male submissive’s Guidelines

Guidelines for male submissives and slaves

2024 Head Mistress: Ms. Siren

In the spirit of Dominance, power exchange, and submission, Tulips CFnm Party respect guest’s safety and privacy. General, Host, and House Rules must be adhered to at all times. Non-compliance is grounds for dismissal and/or banishment from future events. ALL interaction and play is negotiated and consensual. Please read all the rules. 

  • YOU MUST FOLLOW COVID-19 VACCINE PROTOCOL FOR ENTRY
  • You must follow ANY additional rules/protocols given by the Head Mistress.
  • No means no, period. Don’t violate consent.
  • Male switches must remain in bottom mode.
  • Do arrive on time; no admittance after doors are closed.
  • Do bring a store bought dessert for the dessert table.
  • DO read the FemDom guidelines for the party for awareness.
  • Men are required to be in submissive/bottom mode for the entire party.
  • Men must be naked during party core hours. Exception; men in food service.
  • Cover up appropriately outside venue; absolutely NO nudity or fetishwear outside at any time.
  • Dress code upon arrival: Business/Dressy casual or semi-formal; no jeans, t-shirts or tennis shoes
  • Be clean (bathed head to toe, ass and dick) and dressed appropriately for your arrival; do not wear cologne of ANY kind.
  • Be mindful of the Bands of Service you adorn so you do not violate rules of engagement.
  • Bring a bag for your personal items and your personal toys (optional); leave valuable items at home.
  • Bring a clean bath towel (to sit on).
  • Knee pads and kneeling pillows will be allowed.
  • Introduce yourself to chat and engage, but the FemDoms will be in charge of the evening activities. Use honorifics (titles) and scene names as request by attendees.
  • Ideal responses to simple request are: “Yes (honorific/scene name of Her choice)”, “No (honorific/scene name of Her choice)”. “May I” shall be used to initiate interaction with FemDoms.
  • Be polite, gracious, courteous, and respectful to all attendees. Use Please and Thank You!
  • Serve in whatever manner FemDoms desire within the scope of your wrist band color and personal limits without the expectation of anything in return.
  • Be flexible and ready for whatever task is asked of you.
  • Standard posture shall be “parade rest” with hands behind your back or in front (clasped) when waiting to be of service. You may kneel or bow (stand) with your hands in front in an unimposing manner when approaching a FemDom to speak.
  • DO NOT put on any kink accessories such as chastity devices, cock rings, anal plugs, collars, harness, etc. without permission from a FemDom.
  • DO NOT speak out of turn, interrupt, or attempt to dominate a conversation or situation.
  • DO NOT complain or argue. If there is an issue that requires attention you will inform the Head Mistress.
  • DO NOT sexually touch/gratify yourself without the permission of a FemDom (who must be present). By default, this act is prohibited without permission.
  • DO NOT not attempt to ejaculate; ejaculation is prohibited. However milking is welcome as well as, (stroking) tease-and-denial and failed/dry orgasms.
  • DO NOT sit on the furniture without expressed permission of a FemDom or without your towel.
  • DO NOT touch other people’s property without permission.
  • DO enjoy yourself, this is HER night!

Guidelines subject to changes without notice; check back often.