FemDom’s Guidelines

Guidelines for Women Masters, Mistresses, and Dominants

2024 Head Mistress: Ms. Siren

In the spirit of Dominance, authority, power exchange, and submission, Tulips CFnm Party respect guest’s safety and privacy. General, Host, and House Rules must be adhered to at all times. Non-compliance is grounds for dismissal and/or banishment from future events. ALL interaction and play is negotiated and consensual. Please read all the rules.

  • YOU MUST FOLLOW COVID-19 VACCINE PROTOCOL FOR ENTRY
  • You must follow any additional rules/protocol set by the Head Mistress.
  • No means no, period. Don’t violate consent.
  • Women who are Switches must remain in Dominant mode the entire party.
  • Do arrive on time; no admittance after doors close.
  • DO read the male submissive guidelines for the party for awareness.
  • Cover up appropriately outside venue; absolutely NO fetishwear is worn outside at any time.
  • Dress code: Business/Dressy casual, cocktail/semi-formal, or fetish; no jeans, t-shirts or tennis shoes
  • Be clean (bathed) and dressed appropriately before your arrival; do not wear perfume of ANY kind.
  • Remain clothed at all time.
  • Bring your personal toys; leave valuable items at home.
  • Be polite, gracious, courteous, and respectful to all attendees; introduce yourself with preferred honorific (title) or scene name for the evening.
  • Observe Bands of Service as to not violate rules of engagement.
  • Be flexible and creative in requesting tasks/service and play that you desire.
  • Permission MUST be granted by a FemDom for the men to touch themselves for the purpose of creating an erection for Her pleasure.
  • Initiate and accept requested service in the manner and within the scope of men’s wrist band color and personal limits without the expectation of giving them anything in return.
  • When approached, standard posture for men shall be “parade rest” with hands behind their back or in front (clasped) when awaiting to be of service to you. Kneeling or bowing (standing) with their hands in front in an unimposing manner is acceptable for the men prior to requesting to speak with you.
  • If there is an issue that requires attention, do not argue, please inform the Head Mistress
  • DO NOT not allow the men to ejaculate; ejaculation is prohibited. However milking is welcome as well as, (stroking) tease-and-denial and failed/dry orgasms.
  • DO NOT touch other people’s property, human or otherwise, without permission.
  • DO enjoy yourself, this is YOUR night!

Guidelines subject to changes without notices.